小巫仙,小巫仙,法力无边~

 

   小讨厌调皮的把妖精国王的鼻子变成花瓶,被逐出森林.住在一个人类科学家家中,超级喜欢甜甜圈.和她一起的还有暗恋她的妖精王子变成的超可爱奇妙生物--可暂停时间的小闹钟(超级喜欢草莓).以及后来想颠覆巫仙家族的反派奇拉花做斗争.
就是那个小巫仙，小巫仙，法力无边的动画片啊，一施魔法头发变成蝴蝶,每到月圆夜她就可以用法术骑着飞天吸尘器到处飞的那个，还有他身边有个小闹钟，是森林王国的王子， “闹铃，闹铃”时间暂停”的小闹钟？巫仙小公主，任性的小讨厌,最后小闹钟的离去有没有让你明白什么是真正的爱呢?

     最近好像有好多事要记但是终究是没有记录下来，打开千千静听听起以前下的歌，突然沉醉在猫王迷人的声线里，来吧，来，我们一起听猫王。。

有位心理学家曾写道，一个成熟称得上真爱的恋情必须经过四个阶段，那就是：

共存(codependent)

反依赖(counterdependent)

独立(independent)

共生(interdependent)

阶段之间转换所需的时间不一定，因人而易。

第一个阶段：共存

这是热恋时期，情人不论何时何地总希望能腻在一起。

第二个阶段：反依赖

等到情感稳定后，至少会有一方想要有多一点自己的时间作自己想做的事，这时另一方就会感到被冷落。

第三个阶段：独立

这是第二个阶段的延续，要求更多独立自主的时间。

第四个阶段：共生

这时新的相处之道已经成形,你的他（她）已经成为你最亲的人。你们在一起相互扶持、一起开创属于你们自己的人生.你们在一起不会互相牵绊，而会互相成长。但是，大部分的人都通不过第二或第三阶段，而选择分手一途，这是非常可惜的。很多事只要好好沟通都会没事的，不要耍个性，不要想太多要互相信任，这样第二、三阶段的时间就会缩短。和所爱的人相遇相恋是非常不容易的，不要轻言放弃。两人相聚是因为有缘，相知是因为有心，真的得好好珍惜这福份莫说分手不是无由。

希望看到上述的四个阶段，真能给大家一些启示与领悟并惜缘.我们会逐渐变成我们所爱的人。

你和他本来没有相同之处，外表不相像，性格也是南辕北辙，一旦爱上了，年深日久，你会惊讶你的眼睛有点像他的眼睛，他的微笑也有点像你的微笑。你们走路的步伐也有点相似，说话的语气也愈来愈相像。他的脖子上有一颗痣，一天，你发现自己脖子上也多了一颗痣，原来我们会变成我们所爱的人。你本来喜欢脚踏实地的人，而他一向比较轻佻，但你们爱上了，他竟会不知不觉变成一个老实人，这个改变，连他自己也不曾察觉。他本来喜欢活泼的女孩子，却爱上了拘谨的你。这些日子，你竟愈来愈活泼，妳差点认不出自己。我们会逐渐变成对方理想中的人，这种改变，绝对不是刻意的。两个人愈爱得长久，气质也愈来愈相近。你曾经以为他不是你梦寐以求的那种类型。然而，有一天，你惊讶地发现，他已经变成你喜欢的那种类型，你不必再到处寻觅，他就是你要找的人。

深深爱着一个人的时候，你原来真的会一点一点的失去自己，为甚么你还会觉得快乐呢？大概是因为你在失去的当儿，也是赚了，你把他的气质和他的微笑都赚回来..

幸福很单纯，所以要很单纯的人才容易获得。 我们，好好爱。

无 怨 的 青 春

 
在年轻的时候，如果你爱上了一个人，

请你，请你一定要温柔地对待他。

不管你们相爱的时间有多长或多短，

若你们能始终温柔地相待，

那么，所有的时刻都将是一种无瑕的美丽。

若不得不分离，也要好好地说声再见，

也要在心里存着感谢，感谢他给了你一份记忆。

长大了以后，你才会知道，在蓦然回首的刹那，

没有怨恨的青春才会了无遗憾，

如山冈上那轮静静的满月。

皓月闪烁在梧桐树林，

枝干上 梧桐树叶下

发出一种声音

啊，心上的人。

池塘像幸福的明镜，

倒映着蓝色的草影，

风在草梢啜泣嘤嘤……

亲吻吧，是时候了。

辽阔，美满的宁静

似乎走下

星光永远的苍穹

这正是美满的时刻。

       其实经过这么多事,大家都成熟好多.

    病了..生活和心情一下陷入一种无法自拔的病态中,突然很害怕自己..想吐.

     When I was eight years old, I saw a movie about a mysterious island that had an erupting volcano and lush jungles filled with wild animals and cannibals. The island was ruled by a beautiful woman called Tondalaya, the Fire Goddess of the Volcano. It was a terrible low budget movie, but to me, it represented the perfect life. Being chased by molten lava, blood thirsty animals and savages was a small price to pay for freedom. Idesperately wanted to be the Fire Goddess. I wrote it on my list of things to be when I grow up, and I asked my girlfriend if Fire Goddess was spelled with two d's.
     Through the years, the school system did its best to mold me into a no nonsense, responsible, respectable citizen, and Tondalaya was forgotten. My parents approved of my suitable marriage and I spent the next 25 years being a good wife, eventually the mother of four, and a very respectable and responsible member ofsociety. My life was as bland and boring as a bowl of oatmeal. I know exactly what to expect in the future. The children would grow up and leave home, my husband and I would grow old together, and we'd baby-sit the grandchildren.
      The week I turned 50, my marriage came to a sudden end. My house, furniture and everything I'd owned was auctioned off to pay debts that I didn't even know existed. In a week I had lost my husband, my home and my parents who had refused to accept a divorce in the family. I'd lost everything except my four teenage children. I had enough money to rent a cheap apartment while I looked for a job or I could use every penny I had to buy five plane tickets from Missouri to the most remote island in the world, the Big Island of Hawaii. Everyone said I was crazy to think I could just run off to an island and survive. They predicted I'd come crawling back in a month. Part of me was afraid they were right.
      The next day, my four children and I landed on the Big Island of Hawaii with less than $2,000. Knowing no one in the world was going to help us. I rented an unfurnished apartment where we slept on the floor and lived on cereal. I worked three jobs scrubbing floors on my hands andknees, selling macadamia nuts to tourists and gathering coconuts. I worked 18 hours a day and lost 30 pounds because I lived on one meal a day. I had panic attacks that left me curled in a knot on the bathroom floor shaking like a shell-shocked soldier.
      One night as I walked alone on the beach, I saw the red orange glow of the lava pouring out of Kilauea Volcano in the distance. I was wading in the Pacific Ocean, watching the world's most active volcano, and wasting that incredible moment, because I was haunted by the past, exhausted by the present and terrified of the future. I'd almost achieved my childhood dream but hadn't realized it, because I was focused on my burdens instead of my blessings. It was time to live my imagination! Not my history. Tondalaya, the Fire Goddess of the Volcano had finally arrived.
     The next day, I quit my jobs and invested my last paycheck in art supplies and began doing what I loved. I hadn't painted a picture in 15 years, because we barely scratched out a living on thefarm in Missouri, and there hadn't been money for tubes of paint, canvases and frames. I wondered if I could still paint or if I had forgotten how. My hands trembled the first time I picked up a brush. But before an hour had passed, I was lost in the colors spreading across the canvas in front of me. I painted pictures of old sailing ships and as soon as I started believing in myself, other people started believing in me, too. The first painting sold for $1,500 before I even had time to frame it.
      The past six years have been filled with adventures. My children and I have gone swimming with dolphins, watched whales and hiked around the crater rim of the volcano. We wake up every morning with the ocean in front of us and the volcano behind us. The dream I had more than 40 years ago is now reality. I live on an island with a continuously erupting volcano. The only animals of the jungle are wild boars and mongooses and there aren't any cannibals. But often in the evening, I can hear the drums from native dancers on the beach.
      I'm free for the first time in my life. I am Tondalaya, the Fire Goddess of the Volcano, spelled with two d's and I'm living happily ever after.

     八岁的时候，我看了一部电影。在神秘的岛屿上有一座喷发的火山和葱茏的丛林，丛林里有许多野生动物与食人族。统治岛屿的美丽女子是火山的火女神，名叫彤达拉雅。那是部糟糕的低成本电影，然而对我而言，它表现了完美的人生。受熔岩浆、嗜血动物和野人追逐是换取自由的一个小小代价。我极度渴望成为火女神。我将此列入长大之后要成为的清单中，并问女友火女神的写法是否有两个“d”。
     多年过去，学校教育将我塑造成一个正统的、负责、可敬的公民，我忘记了彤达拉雅。父母满意我那门当户对的婚姻，随后25年我成为一名好妻子，是四个孩子的母亲，是可敬而负责的社会一员，生活平静乏味得像碗燕麦粥。未来于我了然于胸：儿女长大、离家，与丈夫白首偕老，带养孙子孙女。
     在我50岁的那个星期，婚姻突然结束了。房子、家具、我拥有的一切全拍卖掉，用来偿还那些我从未知晓存在过的贷款，一周之内我失去了丈夫、家园以及父母——他们对家里出现离婚心存抗拒。除了我四个年少的孩子，我失去了一切。我的钱够用来找工作的同时租一所廉价公寓，或者我可以倾尽积蓄买五张机票从密苏里飞往天涯海角——夏威夷的大岛。人人都认为我打算逃到一个岛上还认为能够活下去的想法太荒唐了。他们预测不用过一个月，我准会爬着回来。我隐隐害怕他们是对的。
     次日，四个孩子与我登上夏威夷的大岛，带的钱不足两千美圆，明白这世界上无人能帮助我们。我租下一间没有家具的公寓，我们睡在地板上，以谷物为粮。我有三份工作：跪擦地板、向游客兜售澳洲坚果、采集椰子。我每天工作18个小时，由于一天只吃一顿，体重下降了30磅。焦虑侵袭着我，我蜷曲在浴室的地板上，抖得像患了炮弹震荡症的士兵。
     一天夜晚，我走在沙滩上，看到远处乞劳伊阿火山喷出橙红色的岩浆。我正在太平洋岸趟水，观看着世界上最活跃的火山，然而我却白白地浪费了这精彩的一刻，因为过去让我挂怀，现在让我疲惫，而未来又让我恐惧。我只看到重担而没看到幸福，所以毫没意识到自己几乎已经实现了童年的梦想。那一瞬间我忘记了往昔，想象再次苏醒了！彤达拉雅——火山的女神——终于来到了。
     第二天，我辞去工作，把最后一笔薪水全花在艺术用品上，开始做起自己喜欢的事情来。15年以来我不曾画过一张画，因为在密苏里农场我们用不着糊口谋生，何况还没有钱买颜料、画布和画框。我怀疑自己是否还能画，怀疑是否还记得怎么画。第一次拿起画笔时，我的手都颤抖起来。还没到一个钟头，我就给涂在面前画布上的色彩弄得不知所措起来。我画的是古老的船只，等我渐渐拾起自信时，别人也开始对我有了信心。第一张画我还没来得及装裱就卖了1500美圆。
     过去的六年充满了冒险经历。孩子们与我和海豚一起游泳，观看鲸鱼，攀登火山口。每天清晨醒来，我们的前方是大海，后方是火山。我40多年前的梦想如今化为现实。我居住的岛上火山不断的喷发。森林中只有野猪、猫鼬，没有食人族。而傍晚时分，我常能听到土著在海滩上跳舞的鼓声。
     有生以来我第一次感到如此自由自在。我就是火山的火女神彤达拉雅，名字的写法是两个“d”，而且从此以后我一直幸福地生活着。